Off-Campus Living

RESPONSIBILITIES

     In your move off campus, you will come to realize the problems associated with doing so. As a tenant, you have an obligation to be courteous not only to your roommates, but to your neighbors as well. Laying out the ground rules within your apartment, house, or townhouse beforehand will eliminate potential problems. Taking measures to get to know your neighbors is also helpful in maintaining a cohesive and enjoyable living environment.

MANAGING CONFLICTS

     If a problem does arise within the household or neighborhood, steps should be taken to resolve it. The two parties experiencing disagreement must first identify that a problem does, in fact, exist. Often one party may not realize his or her actions have a negative impact on another party. Simply explaining to someone your grief may be the only measure one needs to take.

     Second, members of the two parties must share their respective points of view on the existing problems. This allows each side to understand where the other is coming from.

     Once there is a mutual understanding that a problem does exist and the two sides have shared their perceptions, an agreement should be made to resolve the conflict. Negotiations should take place in which the two parties both compromise on the issue. That way, no one is a loser.

     After a decision has led to a final agreement, a verbal or written contract should be made. Written agreements may be more effective because they offer tangible proof of the statement. This may incline those under the pact to feel more obligated to adhere to it.

     If the problem occurs frequently, reevaluation of the situation may be necessary. Remember, as long as the two parties are willing to compromise, there is always room for resolution. The willingness to resolve a problem makes for a more enjoyable living environment.

NEIGHBORHOOD COURTESY

     Disputes between neighbors should be held with the same respect as those with your roommates. Always be willing to work the problem out.

     As you move into your new home, take the opportunity to meet with your neighbors. After settling in, introduce yourself to them and tell them to never hesitate in addressing their concerns to you. If your neighbors are familiar with you, they will feel more comfortable in approaching you. You may also write a small letter or card to each neighbor extending your greetings, which may help him/her become better acquainted with you.

     Avoid any situations that may arouse negative feelings. Loud music or parties, especially at night, are a nuisance to those who are trying to sleep or relax. If you plan to hold a party, invite your neighbors or notify them in advance. This will prepare them for any possible inconveniences and they may choose to be away from home for the time being. In any circumstances, open communication with your neighbors is extremely important.

SAFETY

     Following certain safety precautions will allow you to feel secure in your home. Observing not only your own home but also your building or neighborhood will better prepare you for potentially dangerous situations.

     Locks, while not completely effective, are important in deterring possible intruders. All doors and windows should have proper security that would hinder an outsider from attempting to enter your home. Dead bolts and peepholes on the front door allow you to see who is at the door. House alarms may further assist in scaring off unwanted visitors.

     When leaving for an extended period of time, you should notify neighbors or the building security guards. They will be aware that you will not be home and will be able to react to suspicious activity. Also notify the post office if you are going to be away for longer than a week.

     Before moving into your residence, you may want to observe the area at night. If there is peculiar activity occurring, this should have an influence on your decision to move there. There will be times when you will have to walk to your home unescorted. Sufficient lighting in your building or street at night makes those potentially dangerous areas less prone to attackers.

     Find out the means of security in your area. Most apartment complexes have security guards who are available on call. If your area has no dedicated security means, become acquainted with the emergency numbers in your local areas.

     There are some areas that have a neighborhood watch in effect. These organizations help prevent crimes and are organized by the neighborhoods themselves. If your area does not have a group such as this, talk to your neighbors about forming one. Those who are considering stalking or burglarizing a particular area will think twice if the neighborhood is active in preventing crime.